Community Policies & Guidelines She Breaks Free is a private support space created for women navigating relationships marked by coercive control, narcissistic abuse, and separation or divorce from an abusive partner. This is a space built on trust. In order to protect that trust and keep this a genuinely safe place to share, every member is asked to read, understand, and agree to the guidelines below before participating. By joining this community, you agree to abide by these Community Guidelines and Standard Terms of Conditions. Kimberly Solo and the moderation team reserve the right to update these guidelines at any time, and members will be notified of material changes. Key Guidelines & Community Standards 1. Confidentiality & Privacy What is shared in this group stays in this group. Members must exercise caution and respect the privacy of others at all times.
Sharing screenshots, content, or identifiable details from this community outside of the group — including on social media, in texts, or with anyone not a member — is strictly prohibited.
Do not share another member's story, situation, or identifying information with anyone outside the group, even anonymously, without their explicit permission.
Be mindful that anything you post is being read by other survivors who are trusting this space with their safety. Treat every post — yours and others' — accordingly.
Violating confidentiality may result in immediate removal from the community, regardless of intent.
2. Zero-Tolerance for Harassment This forum is designed to be a safe haven for women healing from abuse. It will not become a place where anyone experiences further harm.
Any bullying, threats, intimidation, or aggressive behavior directed at another member will result in immediate removal from the community.
This includes indirect harassment — subtweeting, vague-posting about another member, or targeting someone without naming them.
There are no warnings for harassment. The safety of this space comes first.
3. Respectful Tone Members are expected to conduct themselves with mutual respect at all times.
Constructive discussion, disagreement, and differing perspectives are welcome and encouraged — this is how we learn from each other.
Hate speech, intolerance, discrimination, and personal attacks of any kind are strictly forbidden.
Please assume good intent, but also take responsibility for the impact of your words. If a moderator asks you to rephrase or reconsider a post, please do so with grace.
Advice should be offered gently and without judgment. Everyone's timeline for healing and decision-making looks different, and no one is required to justify where they are in their journey.
4. Safe Environment This community exists to support healing — not to create legal, emotional, or safety risk for its members.
Content that violates a family court order (including custody, visitation, or restraining order terms) is not permitted.
Content that is exploitative, graphic, or intended to shame, expose, or retaliate against a specific individual (including an ex-partner) is not permitted.
Do not post identifying information about your ex-partner, their location, workplace, or other details that could be used to locate or harm them or you.
Kimberly Solo reserves the right to remove any member of the group at any time, at her sole discretion, in order to protect the safety and integrity of the community or if she believes the community is not the right fit for an individual.
Additional Community Expectations This Is Not a Substitute for Professional Help This community offers peer support and shared experience — it is not therapy, legal advice, or a substitute for working with a licensed professional. Members are encouraged to seek individual therapy, legal counsel, and safety planning support from qualified professionals as needed. If you are in immediate danger, please contact 911 or the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233. No Solicitation This space is not for promoting outside businesses, services, products, or programs without prior approval. Members joining solely to solicit others will be removed. Reporting Concerns If you witness a violation of these guidelines, or feel unsafe for any reason, please report it directly to Kimberly Solo or a moderator rather than engaging publicly. Reports are handled discreetly and taken seriously. Consequences for Violations Violations of these guidelines may result in, at the sole discretion of Kimberly Solo and the moderation team:
A private warning and request to remove or edit content
Temporary suspension from the community
Immediate and permanent removal, without refund, for serious or repeated violations (including any breach of confidentiality or harassment)
By participating in this community, you acknowledge that you have read, understood, and agree to these Community Policies & Standard Terms of Conditions.